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Speaking "Off-the-Cuff" Without Losing Your Shirt
Jan 27, 2010

The only thing worse than having to stand up and speak for most people is to be forced to stand up and speak RIGHT NOW! What are some effective strategies to handle this situation? Let's take a look.
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The Things That Bug You About E-Mail and How to Fix Them.
Nov 24, 2009

E-mail, like a lot of great advances, is both a tremendous tool and a source of extreme annoyance.
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You Get the Importance of Clear Communication, But Others Don't?
Oct 29, 2009

Do you cringe every time you see a CEO in the news, sweating and struggling, because you fear you could be next? Are you afraid your organization isn't ready to deal with a problem or full-blown crisis? Even worse, do you feel you are the only one who understands the seriousness of the situation? Take heart my friend, this edition of the Monthly Memo will provide you with strategies and suggestions to help.
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Changes in the Media World and How They Impact You
Sep 30, 2009

There have been major changes in the Media world in the last year and they have an impact on your work place, how you learn about the world around you and how you communicate to that world.
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The Answer to the Question, "So, tell me about yourself."
Aug 27, 2009

For nearly every person I meet, I want to know their personal story. If you spend any significant time with someone don't you want to know where they're from, how long have they done their job, family stuff, etc.? Here's the question: How well do you tell your personal story?
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Top 5 suggestions when applying online for a job
Aug 19, 2009

With so many people looking for work I decided to offer a Special Edition Monthly Memo and I found the perfect person to write it. My long-time friend and colleague John Menzies just finished three non-stop months in job search mode after about 30 years of employment. Thankfully John found a new job and now he's ready to share with you some of the lessons he learned about applying for work in an online world.
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The President, the Professor and the Police Officer.
Jul 29, 2009

Have you ever witnessed an accident? Everything moves in slow motion. You see it happening but you can't do anything to stop it. That's how it must have felt for the President's advisors as they listened to him at last week's news conference as he wandered into the matter of the arrest of his friend.
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Handling Scandal and How History Repeats Itself
Jun 30, 2009

Watching South Carolina Governor Mark Sanford explain his "mystery trip" to Argentina should bring back lots of memories for you. No, not because you have secretly run off to South America on a trip which led to your public downfall -- but because it follows a very well-worn path we have seen before from those who have trouble explaining bad behavior. Along the way, there are lessons for all of us who have a public image or are in charge of managing someone else's public image. (And, in case it hasn't struck you lately, we're ALL in the business of managing a public image!)
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Speaking Outside of Your Comfort Zone
May 28, 2009

How many times have you heard you should find your passion and then live it? That's great advice, but today what I'm talking about are those other times -- when you find yourself saddled with an assignment, a topic to present or a media issue and you know you will have a tough time knocking it out of the park. Hell, you'll actually be happy if you still have a job when it's all over!
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The Power of the Pause -- Sometimes, It's Not What You Say.
Apr 30, 2009

Whenever we have to deliver an important speech, a critical interview or even a run-of-the-mill Friday afternoon presentation, we usually fret about the words. Often hours are spent agonizing over just the right combination of phrases to bring your point home.
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Battling the Blank-Out -- Remembering What You Are Going to Say
Mar 30, 2009

It's almost like you lose oxygen for a moment. Nothing goes through your head. It's just a blank sheet. What do you do?
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Further Proof You Are Always "On."
Feb 25, 2009

Everyone ... you, the people who work for you, anyone at anytime can be captured at their worst. For the purposes of this Monthly Memo remember whether you are in front of an audience or a media microphone, you are always "on."
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For those of us who, uh, have trouble, you know, getting the words out.
Jan 28, 2009

They are called crutches. Words or phrases we use when we're searching for just the right word -- and these crutches can start popping up all of the time. At the very least it is an annoyance to those who are listening to us, but it also can do long term damage to our personal credibility.
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Providing a Credible Good News Message in a Down Economy
Dec 31, 2008

The goal here is to be able to effectively talk about what you do, even when times are tight.
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How to Communicate the Economic Downturn to Your Employees
Nov 25, 2008

How do you explain the economic downturn knowing your employees will turn around and begin talking about it with your customers? How do you shape that message knowing it is going right to the people who bring in the money that fuels your business?
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Avoid Talking Politics or Religion in Polite Company -- With This Exception
Oct 29, 2008

The way I prefer to look at elections is to see what we, as communicators, can LEARN from the process. As with many national elections, there is some great material this time around.
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What to Say When You Are at a Loss for Words
Sep 25, 2008

We've all been there. Your mind goes blank at a key moment in a conversation or while in front of an audience. Ouch!
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What Do You Think of the Audience You Are Addressing?
Aug 28, 2008

When you are watching someone deliver a presentation, a political convention speech or appear in the media, can you tell what's going on inside their head? I would submit you can, and you probably don't even think about it in most situations. In this edition of The Monthly Memo we'll look at one of the easiest ways you can get a positive reaction.
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Political Convention Season Also a Great Live Laboratory
Jul 30, 2008

The grand tradition of the national political conventions provides an opportunity for all of us to see some great moments in mass communication -- and to learn from others mistakes!
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Making the Most of Precious Practice Time
May 29, 2008

While many of us understand the VALUE of practice for an important interview or presentation, very often we end up winging it.
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What Are The Most Important Words You Speak?
Apr 29, 2008

Anyone who has agonized about an upcoming speech or a presentation knows how you can fret about saying just the right words.
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The Correct Way to Say, "I Don't Know the Answer to that Question."
Mar 26, 2008

Whether it is out of politeness or ego or obligation, many of us feel we have to answer every question when we are at the front of the room or facing a reporter's questions. You DON'T have to answer the question and there is great power in knowing how to handle these situations.
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The Everyday Misunderstandings Lurking in Your E-Mail, Part II
Feb 28, 2008

The mistakes and misunderstandings that plague our everyday life in the e-mail world have sparked a wealth of reaction from many of you.
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The Everyday Misunderstandings Lurking in Your E-Mail
Jan 24, 2008

There is new research which shows just how easy it is to be misunderstood in the world of e-mail, and the results can be a little scary!
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An Important Skill: Getting Good at Saying "I'm Sorry."
Nov 28, 2007

Whether you've seen Dog the Bounty Hunter or FEMA bosses, there's been a lot of apologies being offered lately. There is a right way and a wrong way to say you are sorry in public and knowing the right way can save you an awful lot of heartache.
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Got Bad News? Terrific! You're About to Learn Some Great Lessons.
Oct 25, 2007

When is bad news actually good news? More times than you think! This 37th edition of the Monthly Memo looks at all the good things about Bad News. It's also important for any leader to be able to handle bad news and by the time you are finished reading this column you may look at Bad News very differently.
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The Problem With Smart People
Sep 20, 2007

How could there possibly be a problem with smart people? Employers are on an endless search for smart people to carry their companies to the next level. We like to surround ourselves with smart people to help us lift our game. And we are in such a short supply in this country we now search the world over looking for smart people. So, what's the problem?
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Is this, once again, the Summer of Love? Here's a great place to start.
Jul 9, 2007

This version of the Monthly Memo offers the most overlooked and undervalued piece of advice for anyone who stands up to speak on behalf of themselves, their cause or their employer. For anyone old enough to remember, the Summer of Love overtook the USA ever so briefly back in 1967. Flower Power and VW Mini-buses dominated the pop culture scene, fueled from the Haight-Ashbury district in San Francisco. So? Should you walk into your next presentation or news conference with a flower in your hair? You can, but I'm talking about something even more fundamental in the life of a great communicator.
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Flying into JFK tomorrow, and all is right with the world.
Jun 5, 2007

A quick look at the headlines and you know JFK airport in New York has been the focal point of the latest terror threat. A team of people were trying to figure out how to use the fuel lines running into and around the airport as a way to kill innocent people. What, you might ask, does this have to do with how you get your point across to an audience? Well, come along and you'll see. (I happen to be flying into JFK airport tomorrow, so "fear" has crossed my mind recently!)
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I was just thinking about you ...
May 10, 2007

When I sat down to write this Monthly Memo I was thinking of you. Isn't it great to be thought of? The fact is, we all want to be thought of and it really is the key to all successful forms of communication.
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Why a crisis plan is always a top priority ... next year
Apr 21, 2007

Billionaire Warren Buffett once told NBC News, "It's taken us 37 years to build this firm ... we could lose it in 37 seconds." He meant if you say the wrong thing at the wrong time you can do yourself major damage. (Just ask Don Imus.) While everyone in the business world from Warren Buffett on down understands this idea, very few people actually set up a plan to handle a crisis. It's always a top priority ... for next year.
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"One size fits all?" How about "one size fits one!"
Mar 1, 2007

Business books don't always make for the most fascinating reading, but I've come across an exception that I think you may enjoy. Written by New York City restaurateur Danny Meyer, "Setting the Table" is a great look at the importance of "service," and how to keep that critical issue front-and-center everyday in your work.
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When should you speak? The advantages of order.
Jan 1, 2007

Are you part of a team that puts together presentations? Do you have to be part of a competitive bidding process where several groups or individuals make presentations? If so, when do you prefer to speak? Are you a "let's go first and get it over with" kind of person or do you always want to have the last word? And what about those situations when the speaking position is out of your control? While it may not seem like a big deal, I'm going to make a case for giving your place in the speaking order some serious thought.
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Senator John McCain -- Some personal observations
Nov 1, 2006

It's not often one can say a person they've known for 20 years might be the next President of the United States, but in the case of John McCain, I can say it. First, two points of clarification. I don't really know John McCain, but I've covered him as a reporter and interviewed him and spent hours with him many times over the last 20 years. In that way I know him. Second, you need not worry that the rest of what you're about to read will be some kind of endorsement. You are fully capable of making your own decisions about people who run for President. What I have to say about McCain is a little of what I learned from him and about him over the last 20 years, and therefore what we can all learn about life in the media and public spotlight.
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"Did you hear the one about...?" Leave comedy to the professionals!
Oct 1, 2006

If you look through the stacks of books on public speaking you'll often see, close by, the latest joke books. The logic is simple. Anyone who has to appear in front of an audience will surely want to liven up their presentation with a joke or two -- or ten. As appealing as that may sound, use extreme caution. In fact, my advice is, stay away! Now, that doesn't mean you never get a laugh out of your audience. Let me explain the safe middle ground which I think will work for you.
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It's Election and Debate Season. Get ready to win the idea war!
Sep 1, 2006

Fall is in the air -- footballs are flying at the local parks -- and charges are flying between candidates. Also, there are the arguments over the ballot propositions. If you pick up a newspaper or turn on a TV, you see it unfold right before your eyes and ears. Let's see what we can learn from all the hoopla.
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Want to be a better communicator? Focus your energy!
Aug 1, 2006

No, this is not a yoga exercise. We won't be getting together to practice deep breathing drills. Being able to "focus your energy" will be a terrific tool you can use right away.
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Can Your kids or parents explain what you do for a living?
Jun 1, 2006

For all the years Jay Leno was out on the stand-up circuit his Mother had no idea what he did for a living. She would explain to friends, "Oh, I think Jay goes out and does little skits..."
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Want to know the key to communication? Listen!
May 1, 2006

Much has been written, in this column and other places, about the importance of speaking in the communication equation. Good, important information, but let me point the discussion in a completely different direction. Let's zero in on listening as a key for any great communicator.
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Moving the conversation to where YOU want it to go.
Apr 1, 2006

Did you ever feel the discussion getting away from you? It's easy for it happen as a conversation moves quickly from point to point. Whether you are in a job interview, a media interview or in front of a meeting making a presentation, the train can go off the tracks.
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What to do when the Boss says, "We need good PR, NOW!"
Mar 1, 2006

Perhaps there have been some bumps in the road lately ... a few negative articles in the paper, some poor earnings reports or a messy firing. Whatever the scenario, it is usually at this exact time that one of the bosses can shout, "Smithers, get me some good PR, Pronto!" If you happen to be "Smithers" in this situation, it can be a critical challenge.
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"Surely lawyers know how to speak and handle the media!?"
Feb 1, 2006

Not necessarily ... and stop calling me Surely!

This "Ask the Expert" column appears in the latest edition of "Maricopa Lawyer," the official publication of the Bar Association in the Phoenix area. I thought you'd enjoy it.

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"I hate my voice when I stand up to speak!"
Jan 1, 2006

Not all of us are blessed with a voice like James Earl Jones or Catherine Zeta-Jones. In fact, almost none of us can match their unique vocal gifts ... and that's why voice quality need not be nearly as great a concern as many of us fear.
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Matching your story with the right news outlet
Nov 1, 2005

You have a great story to tell, but you can't seem to get your local newspaper or television station to pay attention. Or the Wall Street Journal won't return your calls even though this is a great national story!
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Everyone has a uniform, whether you want it or not!
Oct 1, 2005

Now that we're in the heart of football season, any fan can tell you the details of their favorite team's uniform. But, you have a uniform as well, even though you may not think of it that way.
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Mike Brown and the flaw in the finger-pointing strategy
Sep 1, 2005

Congress wants answers, or at least something close.

When it came time to ask questions about Hurricane Katrina, former FEMA Director Mike Brown was front and center this week. The point for all of us to understand is this: Whenever you are asked to explain your actions during a controversy, in the glare of media scrutiny, there are many agendas at play.

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Connecting with the audience: The tricks of the trade
Aug 1, 2005

My son's Sophomore English teacher started the school year going from student to student in each class, shaking hands with every person. It lasted just a few days and kind of freaked out the already edgy 15-year-olds, but it got me thinking! How DO people break through and connect with an audience?
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Coming up with that PERFECT sound bite
Jun 1, 2005

"It's the economy, stupid." "I'm a compassionate conservative." "Ask not what your country can do for you." "Mr. Gorbachev, tear down this wall!"

These are some famous quotes from the last 50 years, but what does it take for a group of words to really stand out to those who hear them? And what can we all learn from this process to come up with the PERFECT sound bite to get our point across? Here are some ways to make sure your message sticks.

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To gesture or not to gesture, that is the question!
Jun 1, 2005

How many times have you stood in front of an audience and wondered, "What should I do with my hands?"

It is the single most-often asked question when I speak with clients about presentation skills. No one wants to appear to be a wild, out-of-control windmill behind the podium. At the same time, very few people want to be addressed by a mannequin!

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What happens when the media makes a mistake? (Part II)
May 1, 2005

As strange as it sounds, an outright mistake in the media is the easier problem to deal with. The more difficult challenge is when an article or story on TV has taken a "tone" you disagree with, or the impression some people get from the piece is a problem. Then what?
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What happens when the media makes a mistake?
Apr 1, 2005

From outright goof-ups to slight oversights, reporting is a human endeavor and mistakes occur everyday. How you handle them can lead to a successful experience for everyone involved -- or it can be a disaster. Here are some thoughts from someone who has been on all sides of this uncomfortable situation.
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Will PowerPoint be the death of us?
Mar 1, 2005

Let's see a show of hands. Who here has watched, eyes glazed over, as someone stands at the front of the room going from one slide to the next on "the endless PowerPoint?"
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What $32 million will NOT get you. The Randy Johnson story.
Feb 1, 2005

Randy Johnson is one of the most celebrated baseball players currently in the game. When the New York Yankees once again came up short in their quest for the World Series last season, they put one person at the top of their wish list: Randy Johnson. But there are some things a $32 million dollar contract will NOT buy.
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Handling the hot potatoes: Answering tough questions from live audiences
Jan 1, 2005

You can feel the whole group cringe. The tough question comes zinging in from someone in the crowd and now the person with the microphone is on the spot. What do you do if you are the one who has been tossed the hot potato?
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The incredible shrinking soundbite; Saying what you can quick!
Nov 1, 2004

In more than 25 years as a reporter, I went from the 30-second soundbite, to the 15-second soundbite to the 11-second to the 7-second and, well, you get the idea. These days if you can say it in 4.5 seconds you stand a chance!
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You can't saw sawdust; Lessons from a master communicator
Oct 1, 2004

Sit down with "Swim with the Sharks" author Harvey MacKay for 10 minutes and he'll rattle off at least 10 stories. It seems he's never forgotten one, and the more than 10 million books he's sold around the world back that up. But there's more. He's a sought-after speaker who started his speech life even before the book writing. With that combined background (besides running a multi-million dollar envelope company) he seemed like the perfect person to talk to for the Monthly Memo.
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The lessons to be learned from a Presidential debate
Sep 1, 2004

For the purposes of this exercise, look at the race for the White House as a laboratory for you to learn about communication and message strategy. The Presidential debates are some of the greatest forums to do just that and, despite all the stage managing and limits on these events, they still reveal a great deal...sometimes more than the candidates would like!
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The power of a simple message: Nine words that stopped a train
Aug 1, 2004

Riding on the John Kerry campaign train earlier this month I learned a great lesson. Occasionally I'm still asked to put on my reporter's hat, and that's how I found myself on the "Believe in America" express, riding across New Mexico and Arizona.
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Case studies: Taser and Martha Stewart -- What we can learn
Jul 1, 2004

Two recent cases of critical media coverage offer great opportunities for everyone to learn something. First, the easy one.
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The overlooked secret to positive media coverage -- access
Jun 1, 2004

How do you get positive media coverage? If you are in the public eye in any way, getting something positive said about you can seem like climbing Mount Everest. It doesn't have to be.
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The sounds of silence. When you don't talk, the vacuum is filled by someone else.
May 1, 2004

One of the undisputed but often overlooked rules in public life is this: If you choose not to speak, someone will speak for you ... and you probably won't like what they say! Instead of realizing the truth in that statement, another rule takes over for most people: We don't know everything, so we won't say anything!
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How do you get people to understand you? Tell them a story.
Apr 1, 2004

In an interview with Rolling Stone magazine last month, Tonight Show host Jay Leno answered every question with a small story, example or parallel.
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